Do's and don'ts on my page

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Edited this because some people are just - either way. I thought there were some things people should know since apparently they're not obvious enough to some.
I've seen people get annoyed by certain things I don't mind and there's some things I do mind so I thought it'd be good to make a list like this. xD

Personal remarks
- I am someone who rarely ever swears or uses insults, and I'd prefer it if you didn't overdo it when talking to me either. And honestly, if you insult me personally I will take it to heart, so please don't do that. I try to keep my language formal and when I have a discussion about something with someone then I will not attack them on a personal level, so there is no need for you to take it personal or attack me personally either.
- Don't overdo it with insults in general, even if it's meant as a joke. I just generally don't like it.
- I believe that people have to be able to deal with the consequences of their actions. If you left a rude remark or anything, and people are replying to you, I will not hide your nor anyone else's comments unless I feel like it myself, so don't come to me commanding me to hide the conversation. You can hide your own comments if you wish, but I won't do anything. Your comment, your responsability.
- I may seem grumpy or give you short replies at times, don't take it personally, it probably isn't something against you :P
- Don't act brattish about me refusing your commission/art trade/request. Act normal or don't reply at all. It leaves me in a bad mood when people act upset towards me about it.
- If you have a question for my girlfriend, or you want to befriend her or anything, you can just ask her! People often ask her through me and it's kind of weird, she doesn't bite! And if you want to get to know her then you'll have to do it personally anyway :XD:
- I may not always reply right away, but I will when I get the motivation. Be patient, sometimes I will be tired and not talk easily, please respect that and don't spam me.

You can
- thank me for faves, watches, Llamas. I don't mind. BUT. I'd prefer it if you only did so through comment (not notes) and only once a day. If I fave three pictures of you in a day there's no need to thank me three times, because then it gets annoying. Otherwise I don't mind.
- fave my whole gallery if you feel the need to do so. I'm honoured that you like my work that much x3 Of course I go "whaaat" when I suddenly have a lot of feedback messages but I don't get annoyed by it either.
- comment and favourite old deviations, I don't mind at all. But yea, they will be worse than my current art and I can't help that now!
- ask me about art trades and commissions. It all depends on my mood and my schedules.
- randomly say hi to me, I'll reply. But don't expect me to be able to have a long, interesting talk out of your "Hey", I have issues when it comes to that x')

Don't
- ask me for points. There is not one single reason why you'd absolutely need them. If you want points, make a journal about it and people will donate if they feel generous because they have a choice, but asking people personally? No. Plus, I don't have them myself most of the time because I have a bad habit of spending them when I have them.
- ask me to feature stuff that isn't important or that has nothing to do with me. I don't see why I'd feature your fanclub to my watchers? Those things are for your watchers only and you don't need that club to survive, you know. Your Core membership expiring isn't really the worst thing in the world either...
- send me chainmail. It's spam. If you believe chainmail you're not old enough to be on dA. If you don't but you send it anyway you're bothering people for no reason. I will flag your comment as spam either way.
- send me other spam. If you post empty, "random" or weird comments all over my profile/deviations for no reason then that's annoying.
- ask me to join your contest, I won't... sorry!
- get angry if I refuse your request/trade/commission/whatever. I have my priorities and I enjoy some spare time without stress, too.

I'll add more if I can think of any.
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ShadowAuroraz's avatar
You even used bolds. . .easy there. .